Joan | Not Good Enough

Joan a 50-year-old female came to see me about “not good enough”, she has a history of failed relationships. Joan stated, “when things seem to be going great, I sabotage the relationship. I feel I’m not good enough to love and they will leave me, and they do”.

I regressed Joan back through different times and events in her life when she felt lost and not good enough to love. Joan came to a time when she was first born in hospital at the time she was given up for adoption by her biological mother. We then proceeded back further when Joan was in the womb, whilst there she connected energetically to her biological mother, that she believed she didn’t want her and gave her up for adoption. Joan found this not to be true, as her biological mother wanted to have her and had a loving connection with her before, being forced to give her up for adoption by her wealthy grandmother.

As it was not the right thing to be a single mother and brought shame on the family. Joan discovered that her biological mother loved her and didn’t want to give her up but was pressured to do so.

I had no knowledge before the session that Joan was adopted. During our debriefing of the session, Joan said, “she didn’t realise that this is where her self-sabotage of relationships came from”. Joan hadn’t associated being adopted was related to her failed relationships. As her adopted parents were wonderful loving people. Joan has had no desire to look for her biological mother before this session.

Joan advised me a few months later that she in fact had contacted her biological mother and discovered what she had uncovered in her hypnotherapy session was true. Her biological mother had wanted to keep her but was forced by the family to adopt her out and this broke her heart. Joan found out her biological mother never married or had any more children.